You are single and successful. You would love to be a parent.
You imagined you would have had children by now. You feel time is running out for you and you no longer want to trust fate alone.
You feel you have a lot to offer the right person and it doesn’t seem fair to you that those around you have found someone to make a life with.
POSTERITY. CREATING A FAMILY IS A LEGACY...ALLOWING YOU TO PASS THE BATON DOWN THE GENERATIONS.
You may have worked very hard in your life and given so much to your career, or you may simply have been in relationships where, for whatever reason, it just didn’t work out. You now feel the time has come to have children.
One of our members, let’s call him Tom, said in his first meeting with us, “I’ve built up my business over 25 years and enjoy the fruits of my labour to the full, but when I think of who I will pass it to it all seems rather pointless. Nephews and nieces don’t quite have the same appeal!”. This is how many people feel, but we have found this is a particularly common view among our male members.
Aside from your child benefitting from having both a mother and father (by sharing in the upbringing of your child, giving each other a break when required) it also means shared financial input and, of course, possibly having two sets of grandparents - a wonderful thing for any child.